Tracy
Hogg, RNMH - dubbed “The Baby Whisperer” by her grateful
clients–devoted her career to developing a unique approach to baby and
child care. A British-trained nurse, lactation educator, and newborn consultant,
Tracy spent more than twenty-five years caring for infants and their families.
Sharpened by her work with disabled children, who often lacked verbal communications
skills, Tracy cultivated an uncanny ability to understand what babies need by
listening to their cries and tuning in to their body language. She was the consummate
teacher, able to share her gift with parents and other professionals.
Born and raised in the north of England, Tracy earned her RNMH (registered
nurse mental handicap) after graduating from a three-year course at the Doncaster
School of Nursing, (UKCC for Nursing, Midwifery and Home Visiting) where
she specialized in children with severe mental and physical disabilities. Given
Nurse of the Year Award for the excellence and compassion she displayed in her
fieldwork, her continuing education training included courses at the Great
Ormand Street Children's Hospital in London; Children's Hospital in Leeds;
a stint with the World Health Organization in India; and St. Catherine's
Hospital for the Mentally Handicapped, where she first discovered her gift
for understanding children's cries, gestures, body language, and other nonverbal
cues–a talent she would later apply to babies.
When she emigrated to the United States in 1992, Tracy began to work exclusively
with parents and their new babies, helping them make the transition from delivery
room to first diapers. Word of Tracy's "magic" spread quickly among
parents on both coasts, who praised her skills and sought her advice. Naturally,
as “her” babies began to grow up, Tracy also found herself working
with toddlers as well.
In 1995 Tracy launched “Baby Technique”; a
consulting enterprise and retail store (which has since become an online shopping
site). In addition to working with private clients, she organized and taught
classes for babies of all ages and their parents, counseled breast feeding mums,
and ran groups for fathers. Local pediatricians frequently referred mothers
in distress to her. Often volunteering her time, she dispensed practical advice
to mothers struggling with the most basic issues–for example, how to talk
to and play with your children. Because she also wanted to spread her message
of respect and empowerment at the professional level, Tracy offered training
and placement to other childcare workers as well.
In 1997, perceiving a widespread need among her high-profile clients for relaxation,
Tracy produced an audio tape for breast feeding mothers. Designed to reduce
anxiety and thereby enhance the lactation process, thousands of copies of the
audio tape were sold to private clients and over this web site.
In 2001 Tracy, working with her co-author, award-winning journalist Melinda
Blau, published her first book, Secrets of the Baby Whisperer: How To
Calm, Connect, and Communicate With Your Baby, which instantly
became a New York Times bestseller. In its pages, Tracy laid out
her basic philosophy and showed parents how to unlock the secrets of infant
language. Her simple programme, a blend of intuition and careful observation,
builds on practices she developed after years of experience with thousands of
babies. Secrets of The Baby Whisperer is packed with insights
and clever tips. Using the “Know Your Baby Quiz”,
it teaches readers how to tune into their baby. It explains how to put
even a cranky baby on Tracy’s “E.A.S.Y.” routine.
Most important, the book focuses on the key aspect of parenting - fun!
Just one year later, Secrets of the Baby Whisperer for Toddlers
was published and became a national bestseller as well. Starting with the
simple but essential premise that there is no such thing as a "typical"
child, the book guides readers through Tracy’s unique programmes designed
for toddlers. Practical, reassuring, and written with wit, energy, and boundless
enthusiasm for real children and their everyday behavior, Secrets of the
Baby Whisperer for Toddlers is every parent’s constant companion
during the magical, challenging toddler years.
In June 2002 Tracy teamed up with Discovery Health in Great Britain to produce
a fifteen-part television series entitled The Baby Whisperer.
The series, which is still being aired across Australia, Europe, and Central
America, has garnered top ratings. In each episode, Tracy is called upon to
“fix” what seems to the parents an insurmountable problem–a
nineteen month old who sleeps in her parents’ room, still wakes up every
hour to nurse, and won’t eat solids; a two year old tyrant who runs his
household and when he doesn’t get his way bangs his head; a fifteen-week-old
who is failing to put on weight like his twin brother and who doesn’t
sleep more than fifteen minutes at a time. Each episode demonstrates not only
Tracy’s incredible problem-solving skills, but also her compassion for
children and parents.
In 2004, even as she was battling a life-threatening disease, Tracy and her
co-author collaborated on The Baby Whisperer Solves All Your Problems.
Because Tracy knew that this might be her last book, she was determined
to cover every conceivable problem so that even if she couldn’t help parents
personally, her book would. Basing the contents on the problems that Tracy dealt
with in her many consults since the publication of her first two books, both
in person and on the phone, as well as questions that poured into her online
mailbox, this third book in the Baby Whispering series is the most comprehensive
and detailed to date. (Visitors to this website might recognize some of their
stories in the examples!) In short, The Baby Whisperer Solves All Your
Problems is Tracy’s last gift to parents everywhere. Containing
over four hundred pages, it is a virtual encyclopedia of baby whispering techniques
and philosophy, broken down according to developmental stages and spanning infancy
through toddlerhood.
Sadly, Tracy lost her battle to melanoma on Thanksgiving Day, November 25,
2004. Still, her legacy lives on in her books, her tapes, her television programmes,
and, mostly, the spirit of this website. Babywhisper.com has realized one of
Tracy’s greatest dreams: to create a place where thousands of devoted
parents can come to share their experiences and to support one another. What
she possibly didn’t imagine, though, was that this virtual community would
also make sure that her wit and wisdom could never die.
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